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Strike up conversations with men you find attractive. Join a gym (it can't hurt to buff up your bod along with your self-confidence). Go to a gay club attend LGBTQ events volunteer for organizations, marches, celebrations. Pick yourself up and go out and meet some like-minded people. You just have to take a deep breath and accept that rejection sometimes comes your way, but that it's part of life and won't kill you. Seriously, everyone feels vulnerable at one point or another. Are you afraid of getting rejected? Join the club. You haven't had a relationship yet? Why is that? Examine what's been standing in the way of getting to know someone more intimately than a friend.
What's more important than anything else, however, is your pride - and, right now, it sounds pretty beaten up. He doesn't have to be the love of your life - just a good, trustworthy guy. Call me old-fashioned, but I think you ought to lose your virginity with someone with whom you've cultivated a connection.
That said, I don't really recommend it at this time. If you're just looking for a hookup to get the first time over with, there are dating websites specifically designed for getting some booty. Getting laid is sorta easy, if you don't care how it happens. I've never had a relationship and have barely kissed anyone. I feel so behind in life, and I'm starting to become concerned that it will never happen. I'm a gay male in Burlington, and I'm a virgin.